Each one of my 3 kids has gone through a hitting, kicking, and/or biting phase as a toddler. Believe me, it’s normal!
Toddlers are growing and learning. They don’t really know how to express themselves. But, they do feel strong emotions.
I like to think of them as mini teenagers, with anger, happiness, sadness, and frustration raging through them.
…and often times it’s Mom, Dad, or an unsuspecting sibling that will face the brunt of their anger with a toddler tantrum that includes a good bite, hit, or kick that really hurts!
Yes! Hitting is definitely a toddler phase because your toddler is frustrated. This is how they are trying to express to you or the family dog that they are frustrated or angry.
Research supported by The UC Berkeley Institute of Human Development explains that infants and toddlers have a poor regulation of their frustrations.
This phase will pass because your toddler will grow into a child who can better regulate their emotions and express them in better ways than hitting or biting.
Stopping your toddler from hitting or doing other outward harm is very possible.
This can be done with positive parenting strategies that don’t involve harsh punishments like spanking.
Here are some positive steps to take to stop your toddler from hitting:
Eventually you and your toddler will get to a point where you can prevent and stop biting and hitting all together.
Toddlerhood is tough! There is a reason they call them the terrible two’s.
But, with a good positive parenting plan, positive reinforcement, and getting to know your toddler’s frustrations you can definitely stop hitting and kicking for good.
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